Kitty Cavalier | Private Coaching

I must confess something to you.

I’m actually not a coach.

A coach is defined as a trainer or an instructor. 

The last thing women need is more training and instruction on how we should feel or think.

After being trained from birth that feminine emotions are irrational, unpredictable and untrustworthy, we seek to tame them and keep them on a leash. We try to prevent them from consuming and overcoming our rational, “right mind.”

We try to domesticate our feminine “hysteria” which as Eve Ensler once  said, “is a word designed to make women feel insane for knowing what they know. “

But you can’t turn off what you know.

You can only turn it down.

And when you do…

  • Suddenly you find yourself face down in a pan of brownies.
  • Or you explode at the people you love, while you smile for the people you work with.
  • Or while you find that while you are able to manage teams and multi-task like a champ, when something comes along that makes you feel vulnerable, you become as fragile as a hollowed out egg.

Sound familiar?

These feelings and emotions are DEEPLY WISE, even though they may sometimes feel fragile and stupid. There is an important message they are trying to tell you, and my bet is that they are either screaming so loud, or whispering so quietly, you cannot hear the truth they are trying to communicate.

What will surprise you is that when you stop resisting what these feelings are trying to tell you, you will actually love what they have to say!

These are the WISEST, most POWERFUL parts of you.

In a loving, supportive, trusting space, you can let down your guard, stop running, and start listening. When you don’t have to run from yourself, you no longer have to run from anyone, or anything, ever again.

When we work together you have my total, undivided attention. In addition to our one-on-one sessions you also have full-time access via email anytime you need support.

I am here for you every step of the way.

But we don’t just jump into bed together. I want to get to know you first.  Send an email to or just hit the button below, and my team will get back to you toot suite.

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“Ladies, Kitty Cavalier is a life-changer, a smart, inspired leader for women trying to navigate the confusing contemporary climate. No one understands seduction like Kitty or how to recover the seductress in every woman and reclaim full female empowerment in work, life, and love.”

-Betsy Prioleau

Best-selling author of Seductress: Women Who Ravished The World And Their Lost Art Of Love

“Elegant and sensual, Kitty Cavalier is a vivacious Passionista who commands decadence and sophistication from all of her students. She is the kiss that lingers, the shimmy in your hips, the whisper of desire in your ear. Heed it. She will weave your world into a temple of romance, adventure and mystery. Learn from her.”

Veronica Varlow

International Burlesque Sensation, Writer, Danger Dame

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“Kitty is divine. She oozes fun and sensuality and every time I interact with her, whether it’s live in class or while reading her blog, I am reminded to bring my sexiest, most fabulous self to the table too. This is the gift she gives the world: reminding us of our feminine essence and inviting us to ramp it up.”

Kate Northrup

Best-selling author of Money: A Love Story

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“Simply being in the presence of Kitty Cavalier, you are reminded of your sensual divinity. As a priestess of seduction, Kitty gives women permission to admire the goddess within.”

Gala Darling

Writer, Speaker, Magic Maker

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“Kitty Cavalier is the real deal. As a modern thought leader she is the embodiment of her teachings: seduction as a spiritual practice. Her ability to initiate women into surrender to the divine is un-paralleled by her brilliant mind, incredible wit, infinite charm and ocean depth. She generously shares glimpses into her sacred world through her blog and gives you all she has in her workshops and retreats. Take my word for it. You’ll thank me later.”

Rochelle Schieck

Founder of Qoya

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“Kitty Cavalier is the real deal, a dear friend and masterful teacher. She has elevated the art of seduction into a spiritual practice. I am indebted to her work.”

Barbara Stanny

Author of Prince Charming Isn’t Coming: How Women Get Smart About Money; Secrets of Six-Figure Women; Overcoming Underearning

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